So it's sex that ultimately drives a woman into the arms of the alpha assh*le. A study from researchers at Hartpury College in England, of 146 British women, ages 18-24, found that even the most seasoned daters still tended to fall for men who expelled narcissistic qualities.The narcissistic male does not make a good partner, but even experienced females do not realize this. In a tragic twist of fate, the assh*les are now breeding assh*les. The tests are tried and true; women habitually chase these d-bags, despite how many times they have their hearts broken.Join our Greek dating site today to meet real and compatible singles Greek men, Greek women and guys.Eligible Greeks site features include Greek photo galleries, Greek events such as Greek speed dating, an advice column, Greek chat room and much more.Most women claim to want the guy who is sensitive, emotionally fluent and intimate. We are literally, scientifically geared to want assh*les.Yet, when it comes down to it, women consistently chase after the “bad boy,” the guy who is narcissistic, self-absorbed and avoids all forms of intimacy as if they were infectious diseases. While women claim to want “the nice guy,” we're genetically hard-wired to want to procreate with the alpha male because he has stronger sperm.
This means even though we ladies claim to want serious relationships with good guys, we end up going for the guy who's no good for us.
Both studies found that “nice” qualities were more desirable for long-term relationships while physical attractiveness prevailed in terms of sexual relationships: Niceness appeared to be the most salient factor when it came to desirability for more serious relationships, whereas physical attractiveness appeared more important in terms of desirability for more casual, sexual relationships.
As hypothesized, women who placed a lesser emphasis on the importance of sex had fewer sexual partners, were less accepting of men who had many sexual partners and were more likely to choose the nice guy as a dating partner.
Some women, however, emphasized more negative aspects, considering the 'nice guy' to be boring, lacking confidence, and unattractive." The "jerks" were also divided into two categories, "as either confident, attractive, sexy, and exciting or as manipulative, unfaithful, disrespectful of women, and interested only in sex." These studies also cite other research on heterosexual attraction that does not mention the "nice guy" term.
They interpret various studies on female attraction to various traits in men (e.g.